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First Trimester Necessities

Everything you need to survive the first trimester of pregnancy

First Trimester Necessities- Everything you need to survive the first trimester of pregnancy

Everyone’s pregnancy is different but I’ve put together a list of items that helped me survive the first trimester.  Below that are resources for additional ideas from around the web!

  • A body pillow / Snoogle – I had so much trouble sleeping in my first trimester.  My stomach hurt, I was hot, and I couldn’t get comfortable.  This pillow helped me at least find a comfortable position to sleep in which made sleeping a bit easier.  I liked this Snoogle because it has a pillow case that you can wash.
  • Belly Laughs – My best friend sent this book to me as soon as I told her I was pregnant.  This book is hilarious and you won’t feel so alone in your weird symptoms when no one else knows that you are pregnant.  Oh, and this isn’t the kind of book that will make you nervous or crazy about anything.  You will just laugh.
  • A GOOD bra – I put this off as long as possible but can’t even tell you what a relief it was to get new bras that actually fit right.  For women in the NYC area, I highly recommend Yummy Mummy on the UES.  They have a pretty big selection and the saleswomen (especially Janina) are very nice and knowledgeable.  The store is actually focused on accessories and apparel for breastfeeding, but this way if my bra size ends up being the same, the new bras I got will actually work for that.  I went with the Bravados because they were insanely comfortable AND didn’t give me back fat (tmi?).  Huge thanks to my expert cousin at Forty Weeks for sending me there.
  • Comfortable clothes, especially pants!  I don’t know if everyone has this issue but I would get seriously bloated throughout the day almost all through my first trimester.  By ten weeks, even though I had only gained a couple of pounds, early into each afternoon my pants would be insanely tight and uncomfortable.  Invest in a couple of pairs (they don’t have to be expensive!) of comfortable maternity pants or shorts.  I preferred full panel.  My sister-in-law recommended these leggings which are great and I’m sure I will live in these shorts this summer.
  • Ice cream – One of my biggest cravings in the first few weeks was ice cream (in addition to bagels with tuna).  And sometimes only the real deal works.   Emma is opening up her shop in Jersey City over Memorial Day weekend…. I can NOT wait!
  • Whole Grain Carbs – I was so lucky that I didn’t have to deal with morning sickness but there were a few times that I felt a little nauseous.  Often it was just because I was hungry.  When that happened or when my appetite was just weird, the only thing I wanted were carbs.  Having some good whole-grain options on hands like pretzels, toast or crackers helped me feel a little better about what I was putting in my body.
  • Someone to talk to – I was really nervous about what could happen during my first trimester so I kept the pregnancy pretty secret.  Luckily I’m very close with my family and Matt was really good at listening whenever I wanted to talk about anything pregnancy related.  Have a good confidant so that you don’t feel alone during those first few months.
  • A good doctor – After my experience in trying to get pregnant (a story for another day), I was ready to say goodbye to my gyno.  I did some research and asked around before picking my new doctor.  Also, find out what hospital you would deliver at so you can research that as well.  So far I love my new OB and the location is very convenient to where we live.  It’s also helpful to find a doctor that is covered by your health insurance.
  • Good prenatal workout DVDs – I workout a lot at home but wanted to make sure I was doing everything safely so I stuck to prenatal DVDs.  I like this and this for yoga and love this Bar Method DVD.  Walking is also great, especially now that the weather is getting nice.  Don’t forget to consult with your doctor regarding what is safe for your pregnancy.
  • Snacks – I can’t tell you how many times I’d eat something and head out to run an errand only to get stuck in traffic or out and about and find myself STARVING.  There is currently a Luna Bar, KIND Bar, Z-Bar and big bag of popcorn in my car.  In my purse is a Kashi granola bar, Luna bar, almonds and bag of dried figs.  Usually I’ll grab a string cheese and piece of fruit for the road as well.  And don’t forget the water bottle! Seriously, don’t mess around with pregnancy hunger.
  • Good prenatal vitamin – I love these gummies because they taste like candy and don’t make me nauseous (a HUGE plus).  Also, they don’t use any artificial coloring.  Just note that they don’t have iron in them.

Lists from around the web…

Persnickety Pregnancy: Pregnancy Must-Haves

Gifts for a Pregnant Mama from Clarks Condensed

Surviving the First Trimester from Lily & Bliss

First Trimester Essentials from Christina’s Adventures

First Trimester Essentials from Niblet Blog

5 First Trimester Essentials I Couldn’t Live Without from Emily Davies

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First Trimester (plus) Update

Always wondering what it’s like in the first trimester of pregnancy? Want to know what to say when your friend says she is pregnant?  Read on for details!

Always wondering what it’s like in the first trimester of pregnancy? Want to know what to say (or what NOT to say...) when your friend says she is pregnant?

 

Photos taken last weekend

I know I’ve always been curious about other women’s experiences with pregnancy so I’ll be sharing some of mine on the blog in the coming months.  I’ll limit the specific updates to every few weeks or so, but I may share some stories and advice in other posts along the way.

How far along:  15 weeks

Total weight gain: 6 pounds

Maternity clothes: I started wearing maternity pants around ten weeks (only my leggings really fit me at that point).   Plus I would get so bloated during the day that even if my old pants fit me in the morning I would be so uncomfortable by the afternoon.  My yoga pants and a few loose tops still fit.

Stretch marks: Ah, not yet.

Sleep:  Much better in the last couple of weeks.  For most of the first trimester I was up frequently from stomach discomfort, being hot, and having to pee (four times a night or more!).  I was passing out by 8pm (9pm after the time change) and then past midnight couldn’t sleep through the night.  I also napped occasionally.

A few things have helped over the last few weeks:  drinking less water at night (plus there is probably less pressure on my bladder now), this pillow, and aggressive air conditioning.  Also, my stomach isn’t as bad as it was.

Best moment of this week:  I’d say the best moment of the last couple of weeks was our 13-week ultrasound.  Seeing the baby jump around and then hearing the heartbeat were pretty incredible moments.  Also, sharing the news with our friends and family has been fun.

Miss anything:  I already have a running list of things to consume after I have the baby… a bagel with lox, cocktail(s), a really good deli sandwich, diet coke…

Movement: Nothing yet!

Food cravings:  I had some cravings in the first few weeks, things like nachos, guacamole, ice cream, fruit and all carbs.  Overall, though, I’m just hungry ALL the time.

Anything making you queasy or sick:  Luckily no.  I may have felt like a zombie for the first trimester, but I very rarely felt sick.  And the few times that I did, I just ate extra carbs and that usually helped.

Have you started to show yet: Yes!  Although I go back and forth between looking a little pregnant or very fat.

Gender: Don’t know yet but we will definitely find out.

Labor signs:  Nope.

Belly button in or out: All in.

Wedding rings on or off: On.

Happy or moody most of the time:  Pretty happy but I definitely cry more easily than I ever did before.  It is worse when I’m hungry.

Looking forward to:  I can’t wait to find out the sex!

Fun Facts:  I’ve never felt like I was eating so much yet gaining weight so slowly.  Sometimes I feel like I can’t get any work done because I have to stop and eat so often.

And in case you were wondering how to act around someone you know who is newly pregnant.

What you SHOULD say when you find out someone is pregnant:

  • Congratulations
  • That’s amazing, you look wonderful
  • You are glowing
  • I’m so happy for you
  • That is great news
  • How far along are you?
  • When are you due?
  • How are you feeling?
  • This is such a wonderful time for you and your family
  • I can’t wait to meet the baby
  • Let me know if you have any questions about pregnancy or babies
  • My friend is pregnant, let me introduce you

What NOT to say when you find out someone is pregnant:

  • I knew it!  I thought you looked different  (This can be okay if you say it delicately.  Some women can be really self-conscious of their growing selves)
  • No wonder you are eating like a pig
  • I’ve been pregnant before, here is all that you ever have to know because I am an expert
  • Well, there goes your social life
  • Guess you can’t drink, bummer
  • Most pregnant women I know went crazy after they had a baby (yes, someone said something like this to me)
  • Are you sure you’re not having twins?
  • It’s about time
  • What, you had a hard time?  Here are all the people I know that got pregnant in 0.2 seconds
  • Good thing because that clock is ticking
  • My friends who have kids are miserable
  • Don’t do/eat [insert list of ten million things here]
  • Make sure you [insert list of ten million things here]

And on touching the belly:

I actually did not think I’d have to worry about this so early on, but shockingly people love to touch a pregnant belly, even when it’s small.  Maybe I’ll feel differently in a few months when I’m much bigger, but right now it still feels like my stomach.  Half of the time I’m bloated and uncomfortable and honestly, after years of being self-conscious about how big (I thought) my stomach was, I just really don’t want anyone to touch it.  Sometimes people ask, and I guess that is okay, but I always feel like I’m being rude or I’ll hurt their feelings by saying no.  Any advice on this?

Any other tips on what or what not to say?
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Keep It Sweet Desserts Weekly Wrap-up 4/18/14

Last week’s “big news” was about TV.  This week, though, I have some actual real big news… Matt and I are having a baby!  I’m just over 14 weeks along (holy cow does that sound far now) and the past 9 plus weeks of keeping this a secret were some of the longest weeks I can remember.  I’m so happy, though, and very excited to finally be able to share our news.  There is a lot to tell you about but I think I’ll leave that for another post.  Do pregnancy related posts interest you at all?

Pregnancy Announcement with Before and After Pics

Pregnancy Announcement with Before and After Pics

The 13-week photos are from last weekend, but I haven’t changed too much since then.  And in the spirit of oversharing, I swear that’s only four added pounds.

Other than that nothing else seems that eventful right now.  Things at Keep It Sweet Desserts were great for Passover.  I do have much to share on my plans going forward for my first “baby” as well.  Oh yeah, and it took us about one minute to get hooked on Breaking Bad.

Now for this week’s updates:

Most popular product:  Matzo Crack

Order Matzo Crack for Passover!

Current seasonal specialsPumpkin Pie Coffee (on sale), Atlantic Blend Coffee, Cookie of the Month: Peppermint Patty Stuffed Triple Chocolate Cookies (almost gone!), Matzo Crack (almost gone!), Graduation Gift Basket

Peppermint Patty Stuffed Triple Chocolate Cookies

Most popular recipe/blog post:  Chocolate Truffles 3-ways

Five favorite things I pinned all week:

Salted Chocolate Pots with Caramel Sauce from Amuse Your Bouche

Biscoff Crunch Ice Cream Cake from A Family Feast

Bananas Foster Ice Cream from Scoop Adventures

Overnight Bananas Foster French Toast from Chef in Training

Raw Acai Bowl from Patrice D’Agostino

I hope that you all have a wonderful weekend!